A selection of my "go-to" books


Ambiguous Loss Boss, Pauline, PhD 

How to go on Living When Someone you love Dies Rando, Therese, PhD 

Far from the Tree Solomon, Andrew 


The Drama of the Gifted Child Miller, Alice, MD  


The Guide to Getting It On Paul Joannides, PsyD

Arousal- The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies Bader, Michael, M.D.

The Porn Trap - The Essential Guide to Overcoming Problems Caused by Pornography Maltz, Wendy; Larry Maltz

The Erotic Mind Morin, Jack, PhD 

She Comes First Nagozi, Emily, PhD  

The New Male Sexuality Zilbergeld, Bernie PhD  


American Couples; Money, Work, Sex Philip Blumstein PhD; Pepper Schwartz, PhD     

The Seven Principles of Making a Marriage Work John Gottman

Commitment and Healing ; Gay Men and the Need for Romantic Love; Richard Isay, M.D.                             


The Good Divorce: Keeping the Family Together When Marriage Comes Apart Ahrons, Constance, 1994

The Journey From Abandonment to Healing Anderson, Susan, 2000

Changing the Conversation; The 17 Principles of Conflict Resolution, Caspersen, Dana, 2015



Helping Your Kids Cope With Divorce the Sandcastle Way Neuman, M. Gary, 1998

Mom’s House, Dad’s House: Making Two Homes for Your Child Ricci, Isolina,  1997

Joint Custody With a Jerk: Raising a Child With an Unco-operative Ex Ross, Julie and Corcoran, Judy,  1996

What Should I Tell The Kids Siegler, Ava Ph.D.,  1994